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Lady Sacrifices UK Scholarship For Boyfriend Who Later Dumps Her!

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    • #54585
      OzoIgboNdu1 of Igbo Defender
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      A lady tells the story of how she sacrificed a scholarship to the University of Reading, UK because of her boyfriend, only for the boyfriend to dump her and marry another lady.

      On her Facebook page, she wrote; “You know in 2013 I got a scholarship in the University of Reading in the UK. I wrote my IETLS and everything. I chose man over the scholarship, I could not imagine leaving my boyfriend in Nigeria to go abroad.”

      “See me now my brain don partially block, how I wan take go school again. Man I chose, is his wife’s house eating rice me I am here lonely. If I ever get the chance to do it all over again I will avoid man with all my strength till I hit 30 years.”

      This world eh.

      Source: https://www.facebook.com/1814773315518967/posts/3045297779133175/

    • #54589
      OzoIgboNdu1 of Igbo Defender
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      So, what lessons can we learn from this experience?

    • #54590
      OzoIgboNdu1 of Igbo Defender
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      Should the lady try to get another scholarship after all these years?

      Or should she focus on marriage now that she is older?

      This case is painful!

    • #54593
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      This is my message to the lady in question

      Hmm, In this Naija you allow guy scam you! Anyways, my advice to you is to forget the past and face the future.

      Just arrange yourself, if you can get another scholarship, just go back to school. No age limit in Education!

      It is a lesson to us to be careful who we date!

    • #54594
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      What a sad story. My advice to her is to get herself another scholarship to avoid depression. From there, she can get a good Man that will marry her. It is a serious lesson to us to look before we leap.

    • #54595
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      The only advice I will give the lady is that she should apply for another scholarship

      Oh lord I bow before u for help

    • #54596
      Pheranmi
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      Through that she might see God mercy

      Oh lord I bow before u for help

    • #54597
      Pheranmi
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      And to her getting husband she should put everything on God

      Oh lord I bow before u for help

    • #54598
      Pheranmi
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      God will do it for her

      Oh lord I bow before u for help

    • #54600
      Pheranmi
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      And she should be prayerful

      Oh lord I bow before u for help

    • #54786
      Yamcybab
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      My advice to other ladies,

      Love your lover

    • #54787
      Yamcybab
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      They should learn the lesson from this sad story.

      Love your lover

    • #54788
      Yamcybab
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      Anyways, my advice to lady is to forget the past and face the future.

      Love your lover

    • #54816
      Adamu Salisu Garba
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      Is for everyone @Yamcy

      Adamu Garba

    • #54817
      Yamcybab
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      Yes of course

      Love your lover

    • #54828
      Omaonu
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      Hmm! Life is cruel! On the normal ground, the lady was not wrong in choosing a man over scholarship she did the right thing if not the best thing to do at that moment but in most cases, I mean in cases like this, 99.9% always end up in “had I known” just like this lady’s case now. This story is synonymous with the stories of guys, illustrate guys most of the time that always send the women they plan to marry to school but at the end of the day it will become “had I known”. Those guys were not wrong in sending the person they love to school to acquire more knowledge but just because of the cruel nature of life the good becomes bad. My advice to the lady in particular is no hope is lost yet since there is life there is much more hope, things could only be better when she tries more, she should try again the best is yet to come!

      Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

    • #55031
      pink
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      @omaonu well said.

      • #55033
        OzoIgboNdu1 of Igbo Defender
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        @omaonu
        You have earned a reward of 100 Igbodefender Points for this last comment! Great analysis!

    • #55093
      Yamcybab
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      Excellent 👍

      Love your lover

    • #55097
      Omaonu
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      @cake thank you very much sir I am grateful!

      Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

    • #117759
      Ogechukwu
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      I’m sure she has learned her lessons now.

      Oge

    • #117760
      Ogechukwu
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      I guess she was blinded by love. Or she loved too much.

      Oge

    • #118429
      Timothy
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      Lol I will kill the guy

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