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Another bad relationship I had was with one of my lecturers back then in school , I was in my finals, one good thing about me us that I love with my head🤩🤩 not heart because the fear of heart real is the beginning of wisdom. I had this cool relationship with this guy and he has even proposed, we are of different tribes, my friends knew we were dating , alot were skeptical about the relationship that he is a womaniser but I took it as gossip. Initially we were not intimate and he appeared to be cool with it, I stayed in the hostel so we were mostly hanging out. After the proposal, I started visiting him at home but always left at night . As the relationship progressed and I started sleeping over, I discovered this guy was insatiable, I would be there and another female guest would come who he would introduce as a relative or something, so I leave them most times and go into the room, we are not of same tribe so they communicate mostly in their language but as I started spending more nights, I discovered alot of irregularities and the increasing number of female guest in the night until I discovered that he is having an affair with them, lodging them in the next room and sneaking to go meet them . The discovery killed me but I didn’t discuss it with him, I just told him I was working on my project and didn’t want distraction, even though he was very helpful with my project work, I convinced him I wanted to take the glory for my work so it wasn’t right for him to help me , in his mind he was waiting for me to inform him when I would be going back to Lagos so he could come see my parents but I knew it wasn’t going to happen, when I was ready to leave , he made all the travel plans, bought gift for my parents and we agreed on when he would come, I also didn’t want my friends to suspect anything because they would laugh, immediately I got to Lagos, I told him my discoveries and broke up with him, he was devastated, he didn’t see it coming 🤣🤣, I told my friends my parents rejected him because of tribe to my surprise they were very happy . He was very caring and I loved him for that but then his sexual urge was insatiable, reason why he had many girls but sleeping with us all Under the same roof was unforgiveable. It is one thing I know marriage would not change