[quote quote=120925]Is it advisable to have an opposite-sex bestie outside your marriage?[/quote] Some believe that in such a setting, sparks may eventually fly and one thing may then lead to another.
Others say that people of both sexes can remain platonic friends, without romance getting in the way.
Well, let me wait for the elders to shook mouth for this matter wey dey on ground now.
Also, it depends on how comfortable the other spouse is to the arrangement. Some spouses will believe that the other person should break of all contact with members of the opposite gender because they believe platonic friendship may metamorphose into a friends-with-benefits reality.
[quote quote=120925]Is it advisable to have an opposite-sex bestie outside your marriage?[/quote]It is not always advisable simply because one thing will definitely leads to another in a setting that the fear of God is absent.