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Bitter Experience Lady Had With A Guy She Met On Social Media
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In the story below, a lady recounts the terrible experience she had with a guy she met on social media.
There is this particular guy that I met on Facebook about two month ago in Facebook, we have been talking and he calls me almost everytime, he has tried to invite me to his house in osun state on different occasions but due to security issue I had to decline his invitation..
We planned to meet on Wednesday and he told me he was coming from osun state, so I told him to drop at Mr Biggs in Iwo Road Ibadan..
I stay at challenge so I had to #200 cab from there down to Iwo road, I was having about #1300 with me before leaving the house, I was already waiting for him for about 40minute before he showed up, he told me his car has fault and that he had to call his mechanic to fix the car for him, we sat down and talked.
During our discussion, he told me to please give him 1k to get something to drink, that he had forgotten his wallet in the car and his phone is off to make a transfer, I gave him and he ordered for soft drinks and meat pie..
Along the line, he told me he needed to make a call and requested for my phone so that he can direct the mechanic bringing down his car, I heard him calling and was directing the man down to Iwo road, all of a sudden he just went outside and before I could know it this guy has dissapeared with my phone and was just looking at him from afar..
I couldn’t shout as I was just looking like a fool because I don’t know what’s happening, I waited for about 1hr thinking he has gone to pick the mechanic, I tried calling my number but was switched off, he has gone with my phone and I don’t know his number off hand.
I had use the #100 left with me to buy recharge card and was left with nothing..
It was a bitter experience for me as I had to trek all the way from Iwo road to Olorunsogo, When I couldn’t continue with trekking I had to approach a lady to please help me out
with #100 after explaining my situation to her and she gave me #500 and wished me well.I thank God it was not more than this, he only went away with my phone, what if he had used me for ritual?
Please ladies be careful about the kind of guy you hang out with, always take your time to know the person you are moving out with..
I had learnt my lesson, and have handed him over to God
Source: https://www.nairaland.com/6959861/what-guy-did-me-iwo
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To be very careful is the way forward
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@potal one needs to be very careful with strangers generally not in the aspect of relationship alone. What a stranger can not do doesn’t exist.
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Although social media is really helping many ways i.e businesses. People need to be extra careful with the things they see or even the people that are using it. Many bad things happened not only with girls but boys also.
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Don’t just rush to meet someone you met on social media.
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[quote quote=56854]Be very careful who you trust and tell your problems too, not everyone who smile at you is your friend.[/quote]
She would be regretting giving the stranger the phone. It shows that social media is not yet an adequate substitute to ‘real’ life in judging familiarity. ‘Social media familiarity’ was used as a bait here.
But on the other hand some good also does come out of social media, like actual marriages, for instance.
It’s just that the ways of ferreting out the good from the unknown still has a high rate of unclearness.
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[quote quote=56854]Be very careful who you trust and tell your problems too, not everyone who smile at you is your friend.[/quote]
@yamcy You are right. Paraphrasing Shakespeare; there is no art to show the thinkings of the mind on the face. -
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[quote quote=57905]Although social media is really helping many ways i.e businesses. People need to be extra careful with the things they see or even the people that are using it. Many bad things happened not only with girls but boys also.[/quote] you are right. We need to be extra careful dealing with people on social media.
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Eyaaaaaa. Sorry for her. My gender sha
The girl will probably find it difficult to trust anyone on social media for some time.[/quote] yes she will have trust issue henceforth
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Be very careful who you trust and tell your problems too, not everyone who smile at you is your friend.
She would be regretting giving the stranger the phone. It shows that social media is not yet an adequate substitute to ‘real’ life in judging familiarity. ‘Social media familiarity’ was used as a bait here.
But on the other hand some good also does come out of social media, like actual marriages, for instance.
It’s just that the ways of ferreting out the good from the unknown still has a high rate of unclearness.[/quote]that is it the number of bad ones that come out of social media out weight the good ones
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Eyaaaaaa. Sorry for her. My gender sha
The girl will probably find it difficult to trust anyone on social media for some time.[/quote]even in real life she will have a trust issue
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[quote quote=57906]Don’t just rush to meet someone you met on social media.[/quote] hmm well it is a nice advice thanks
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