If you are playfully loved, people will gather around you. If you are respectfully loved, they may not gather around you as much, but they will give you some kind of honor.
To break it down, a father who is playfully loved, you will see his children climbing all over him, no matter who he is in society. You see the harmony from the laughter of the children as they play with him. But they may sometimes become too playful with him.
But a father who is more respectfully loved, his children will give him some distance out of respect, and when he speaks, they sit up to listen and take him seriously.
So, my question is: Which one is better?